Today I’m sharing an everyday devotional about trusting God in the mess of our lives. I’ve learned over and over that things usually look worse before they look better–and trusting God in the mess is safe. Read along as I tell you a story from everyday life and weave a lesson about God’s grace and truth into it.
Last week I spent an afternoon sanding down the hardwood floors in our soon-to-be master bedroom. I almost didn’t want to start. Most of the floor was in pretty good shape. There were some places where leaky windows had left water damage, or years of foot traffic had worn away the finish completely, leaving bare, exposed wood.
It was a shame sand the nice places. The only thing that propelled me into action was having faith that, in the end, the finished product would look better. What looked “kind of okay” would be breathtaking.
This brings me around to a truth that I’ve learned after working on lots of old houses:
Things Nearly Always Look Worse Before They Look Better.
Pinterest is flooded with beautiful Before & After photos. I love looking at B&A pictures. They’re addictive to me, but often, these images leave out an important look into the middle.
There’s a difficult season in the middle of any project–where things look worse than when you started. Even if you know what you are doing is necessary and will be great when its done, it’s inevitable that things will look like a hotter mess as you start to improve than when you started.
I’ve had “middle moments” when I started to wonder if things were really that bad to begin with. Yes, kitchen cabinets that are intact would be nice. But when prepping dinner means using a dismantled dishwasher as your only counter space, and cleanup means hauling all the dirty dishes upstairs to a decrepit 1950’s apartment kitchen–it’s easy to start thinking things would be better if we’d never started this project.
It’s not just home improvement projects that this holds true for. Think about reorganizing, unpacking, or sorting excess. The mess always gets bigger before it comes into a new, better state.
Israel’s Middle Moment | Trusting God in the Mess
Back to sanding the floor.
As I let the sander do its worst to a mostly-okay floor, my mind drifted off to Pentateuch chapters, still fresh in my mind from the 90 Day Bible Reading Challenge.
How many times did the Israelites rail against Moses, asking him why he’d led them out of Egypt to “die in the wilderness”? Why he’d brought them away from Egypt, where:
“We remember the fish which we used to eat free in Egypt, the cucumbers and the melons and the leeks and the onions and the garlic, but now our appetite is gone.”
Yes, they were slaves. Sure, they were belittled, treated less-than, and strictly limited on how they could worship the God they knew to be true. Of course, it wasn’t ideal. But in the heat of the desert, in the midst of that “middle moment” where they’d been didn’t look so bad.
As a modern reader, it’s easy for me to judge Israel. I mentally scold them for not trusting God in the mess. I easily shame them for having weak faith and faltering. Isn’t it obvious? God has something much bigger and better planned. Why don’t they just hush up and eat the manna? Cool your jets, God is doing something huge and wonderful for you–just give Him a hot second.
It’s easy to take that stance when we know the ending. And not just the ending of that journey, when they really do reach the land flowing with milk and honey. We understand that all the law and the prophets and the wandering lead to reconciliation to God for all people, through the sacrifice of Jesus–His perfect, holy son.
We’re blessed to have a more complete picture. Israel, however, was living the “middle moment.”
Fear in the Middle Moments
As I sanded the floor down I felt great empathy for these people. For them, Egypt was the only home they’d ever known. Slavery was the only lifestyle they’d ever lived. It might have even seemed “basically okay.” Walking away took guts.
Like taking a sander to a floor that was basically okay.
What if I take the finish off and the new stain looks crummy? How will I fix it if I just make it worse?
What if we left Egypt–and all we’ll ever know now is dry, dusty wilderness and wandering?
What if we threw away an unpleasant, but stable existence only to watch our children die out here?
How will we ever live with ourselves if there is no promised land and this whole journey has been wasted?
The floor looked more ragged and dingy while I sanded. The once clean room was covered in dust.
Things nearly always look worse before they look better.
Intentionally Take Heart in Your Middle Moments
Friends, let’s be encouraged by the generations before us. Maybe you are about to jump into something that will shake up your world. You know it needs to happen, but you’re nervous. Plaster this truth on the walls of your heart: Things may look worse before they look better. But God is the author of beauty and redeems even the biggest messes.
Maybe you are in a “middle moment.” Some corner of your life is in total disarray. You want to put things back, but it’s too late. You’ve walked out of Egypt. You’ve turned the sander on the floor. Keep moving forward. God will lead you out. Intentionally reminder yourself: Things look worse before they look better. God is bringing something good from this mess. (Get more encouragement from the Moving Forward in Hard Times series.)
Maybe you are lucky enough to have walked through the “middle moment” and come to the promised land. Hold on to the clarity you have. Do not praise your own strength or effort. Remember, what God brought you through. Continue to seek the ways He worked through that season, continue to praise Him. Write it out. Remember what He has done. Recall it often. Do not make the same mistake as the Israelites.
They stopped talking about it. They stopped teaching their children about that hard season in the wilderness. Eventually, it was a vague, distant tale. And again, a hard season crept upon them, another trial. Another “middle moment.”
No matter where you are, or what you are facing, remember that things may look worse before they look better. But, when we walk with God, we can trust that we are being led toward a finished product, a destination far better than where we started.
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If you are reading through the Bible, plan to, or have read it–you know that reading Old Testament law can be tricky (or nap inducing). Today I’m excited to share a few ways you can refresh your mindset toward the law. (You can get a couple reading plans here, or read about my love for chronological reading and the 90 day reading challenge.)
Reading Old Testament law is hard. It can be hard to comprehend and appreciate. Even harder to understand how it ties into the New Testament, modern church and our faith walk as “post-resurrection” believers.
I get it. I’ve been there–trying to keep my eyes open while reading Old Testament law, or simply letting my eyes move over chapters describing the sacrifices expected at feasts. It can be really, really hard.
Along the way I learned a few things that changed my mindset about these sections of Scripture. These things changed me. Not only could I read them and stay awake, but I came to like them. If you aren’t as big of a geek as me, like may be going a bit far. But I believe we can all come to a place of understanding and appreciation.
Refreshing Your Mindset For the Law + Free Study Guide!
Today I’m sharing seven points that shifted my mind and altered my attitude toward the “drier” sections of the Old Testament. I’ve also turned these points into a FREE printable study guide. You can get it over in the resource library or at the bottom of this post.
A Fresh Take on Reading Old Testament Law
God Is Speaking
Years ago someone encouraged me while I was struggling through the laws and details of the Pentateuch. She said, “I think those books are really cool. I mean, most of the just a record of God Himself speaking.”
I’d never thought of that before. These sections of text are dense with God’s direct communication to His people. It’s reading God’s actual words, to actual people!
God is Equipping a New Nation
After leaving Egypt, Israel was to become a new nation of its own. This was a huge undertaking, but God did not expect them to take it on alone. He didn’t expect them to figure it out on their own or make it up as they went along or copy other nations. Instead, He painstakingly told them everything they needed to know about living as a nation of their own, God’s chosen people.
The Law Assures Us That God Will Provide a Framework to Live Holy Lives in Any Culture
The laws in the Bible reflect in large measure the way ancient societies were structured. God’s revelation speaks into that context. The laws in the Bible do not seek to restructure society, but to affect how people live and think in the societal structure they have...The laws of the Bible seek to transform how people live in whatever sort of society they find themselves. No societal structure is flawless; it is always subject to the nature of the people who are part of it…
Consequently, when we look at the laws of the Bible, we are not looking for the picture of a perfect society nor should we think that God is endorsing such a society. We will find that the shape of Israelite society is often very much like those of her neighbors, but we should be attentive to the ways that the Bible goes further to protect the rights and dignity of those who might be vulnerable. In this way the Bible can pioneer new moral ground even while being situated in the familiar social structures of the ancient world…
While Biblical laws describe a society very much rooted in the ancient world, God calls his people to higher standards. The areas of commonality do not suggest that the Bible has borrowed from the legal literature of the ancient world; only that God addressed their society as it was, but sought to show them a pathway to holy living within that framework.
“Ancient Laws, Scripture and Modern Issues” Zondervan’s Cultural Backgrounds Study Bible
How comforting that God will provide a way for us to live holy lives within the framework of any culture or societal structure!
The Law Reveals God’s Heart
It’s easy to get overwhelmed by the number of specifics laid out in the Law. But the law reveals God’s unchanging heart. Here are a few things the law reveals about God’s character:
While other Near Eastern cultures believed that gods relied on humans to serve them, it’s clear the God of Israel does not need the provision of humans. His desire is a relationship with man, not servants.
God does not expect perfection. Rather, His desire is our heart, trust and devotion. The law draws a clear line between those with appropriate and inappropriate heart posture. Our heart, not our actions or wealth have always been more important to God.
The law reveals God’s desire to show the world what it looks like to be in relationship with Him.
Jesus Valued the Law
References to the law are found throughout Scripture. This alone makes a general understanding of Biblical law relevant to us. Even more, Jesus valued the law and understood it. In Matthew 5:17-18 he says,
Do not think that I’ve come to abolish the Law or the prophets; I have not come to abolish them, but to fulfill them.
For truly I tell you, until heaven and earth disappear, not the smallest letter, not the least stroke of a pen, will by any means disappear from the Law until everything is accomplished.
A friend who is well versed in OT law recently told me that understanding the different categories of law helped her appreciate the laws overall. There are three types of laws laid out in Scripture: Ceremonial, Civil and Moral Laws.
Ceremonial laws aren’t observed anymore because the temple is no longer standing and many were prophetic and fulfilled in Jesus’ coming and atonement for our sins.
Civil laws were specific to life in Israel and in that time and culture.
Moral laws can still be applied today and are seen in teachings/letters sent to the early Church in the New Testament.
Atonement is Messy and Personal
Old Testament law clearly shows us that the atonement we desperately need to bridge the gap between us and God is messy. Atonement is personal, messy and serious. The law points to our need for a more lasting solution. The gap between us and God is wide and we are need a redeemer to help us: Jesus.
Reading Old Testament Law
I hope one or two of these will help refresh your mindset about reading Old Testament Law. If you are joining in on the 90 Day Bible Reading Challenge, you may have already passed through the thickest part of books of the law–but there is still plenty left. Remember, the law is quoted over and over throughout Scripture. Having a basic understanding (original readers would have had a deep understanding) will help you better understand the rest of the Bible.
Grab the FREE Old Testament Law Study Guide: 7 ways to refresh your mindset about the law
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Happy Minot Monday! Minot Monday is made possible through a partnership with BeLOCAL Minot. Today we’re talking about kid’s music classes in Minot at Children’s Music Academy. For more league and activity ideas check out BeLOCAL’s listings here.
It’s my absolute pleasure to bring businesses, activities, organizations and Minot fun of all kinds to your attention. You know I love life here, but there’s definitely a learning curve if you’re new in town–or a transplant. Sometimes you can live here for a few years and still not know everything our town has to offer. Today, I’m thrilled to introduce you to a wonderful resource in Minot: The Children’s Music Academy.
I sat down with CMA owner, Terri Aldrich to learn about the Academy. Then, Gideon and I were able to sit in on a class (even though he’s still a little too young). The Children’s Music Academy is exactly what it sounds like: musical training for children. But there are a few things that set CMA apart from basic piano lessons. If you are looking for a way to begin exposing your little to music, maybe you’ll discover that this is a great fit for you and your littles.
Classes take place in a group setting, focused on learning together, socializing and having fun.
There are four courses offered plus a “Master’s Course” for graduates. Courses are age based and run from 3.5 years old through 4th grade. For course descriptions see here.
CMA’s curriculum is multi-dimensional and teaches keyboard, singing, theory, ear training, composition, ensemble playing, guitar and recorder.
CMA believes in and supports private lessons, but also understands these may be best for older students with a longer attention span and an understanding of the basics.
Research has proven that “music affects virtually every aspect of development …” from math and reading to emotional expression. For more on the benefits of music for children, see here.
This is Something to do With Your Child
This might be my favorite part of CMA. Unlike other activities that require a parent to wait after the child is dropped off, classes here are interactive for both child and parent. This is something you can do with your child. The parent learns alongside the child and can help them in their training.
Now, don’t get me wrong–I appreciate activities (see other leagues and activities in town here) that let the parent watch while the child learns. (Sometimes we need an hour to talk to other parents or drink a cup of coffee.) But CMA is unique in that as a parent you’ll understand everything your child is learning. This is an activity you’ll bond through and look forward to doing together.
Classes Are Based on Age, Not Skill Level
Another thing that makes Children’s Music Academy so attractive is that classes are based on age, not skill level. Each course begins with the basics–even if a child has previously taken lessons, or is more advanced. This ensures that no one is left behind, or feels left out. And, it means that an older child with no experience will never be in the uncomfortable situation of sitting in a class with much younger kids.
Age based classes tailor curriculum to teach kids in a way they are able to comprehend. In the Pre Junior class this means lots of short activities (because their attention span isn’t very long) and activities that don’t require reading.
Students Learn Theory That Prepares Them For A Future in Music
From the very beginning–even in the youngest groups, CMA starts teaching music fundamentals and theory. In the Pre Junior class that meant stories that illustrated the difference between low notes and high notes, drumming simple rhythms that mimicked croaking frogs (“frogs” was the theme of the week) and reading a rhythm depicted in pictures. Big frogs are a long croak, little frogs are a two beat rib-bit.
I really like that the focus isn’t solely on learning the piano or another single instrument. Rather they learn fundamentals that will transfer as a student grows and chooses which instrument they’d like to play.
Kid’s Music Classes in Minot
We had a great time at our Pre Junior class. Gideon played the piano and drum. He socialized with other kids. We listened to stories and made a quick craft and played games. Going in, I wasn’t so sure how CMA would actually teach the fundamentals of music to children so young. However, after class I saw that by teaching at a level they understand, children can begin to grasp musical foundations. It’s really cool.
If you’re looking for kid’s music classes in Minot, I encourage you to check it out. Children’s Music Academy is a great resource and we are lucky to have it in our community. You can contact CMA for more information or specific class dates, times and registration.
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Minot Monday is made possible through a partnership with BeLOCAL Minot. BeLOCAL helps those new to town live and thrive like a local. Today, I’m exploring the lesser known playgrounds in Minot. These are perfect places to play while social distancing may still be a concern.
Happy Minot Monday, everyone! I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: there’s nothing quite like a North Dakota summer. This is the perfect time to get out and enjoy the amazing weather and soak up all the fresh air you can handle. We all know it comes to an end sooner or later. But let’s not talk about that right now. There’ll be time to discuss sub-zero temperatures again in the fall.
Life in Minot is an exercise of intentionality. There’s a lot going on and a lot to do, but you’ve gotta be intentional about finding in and taking part. And, about finding people who can fill you in on the stuff you might be missing if you’re a transplant to Practically Canada.
That’s where I come in.
When I first moved to Minot I heard about the “big two” parks. Oak Park and Roosevelt Park. If you are new-ish, chances are you are familiar with the “big two.” (Side note, that’s a name I made up for them.)
Sometimes, especially since social distancing has become a concern, it’s nice to sneak off to a place less crowded and lesser known. I’ve had the internal struggle myself. Do I let Gideon play on the playground? Are there too many kids here? Should we just stay home and play in our weed patch yard?
Today I’m sharing six fun playgrounds in Minot to avoid big crowds. This is a great list to save and explore–especially if you are stuck in a rut of hanging at the same park day after day. I love our parks department, but their website is a little lacking when it comes to good photos of our playgrounds. Hopefully this will help you find a fun place to play!
Polaris Park
The playground at Polaris Park is fun for all ages, but especially older kiddos who can climb confidently. I love that this playground has “balance” features (things that wiggle under foot) to challenge and grow their skills. In addition to the playground, there’s a good disc gold course and a picnic shelter nearby.
Riverside Park
Riverside Park is tucked away in a northwest neighborhood. It’s small and very quiet. It’s playground is simple, but very nice. I’ve never (ever) seen a crowd here. Besides the playground, there are tennis and basketball courts and a picnic shelter.
South Hill Complex
The South Hill Complex is an awesome hidden gem when it comes to playgrounds. This playground is way fun and unique in that its got a sand base (instead of mulch.) The playground here is big and appropriate for a wide age range. All the playgrounds are fun for bigger kids, but this one definitely gets my stamp of approval as a fun place for preschoolers to play too.
In addition to the main playground, the complex has a great system of paved paths–perfect for bikes (or learning to bike) or roller blades. And it’s got another, smaller, hidden playground!
And if you want to extend your walk, you can meander into the grounds of Rosehill Cemetery. I know recommending a stroll through the cemetery sounds weird, but it’s a thing. It’s got great paths and folks use it as a walking and biking trail all the time.
Bread of Life Community Playground
Okay, friends. This Minot playground isn’t even on the parks department list. So you know it’s a well kept secret. And you’re welcome.
At Bread of Life Lutheran Church there’s a really nice community playground. It’s never crowded. It’s clean and right next to a nice subdivision. Parking is easy and close in the church lot and there’s a nice picnic shelter nearby.
Radio City Park
Because Radio City also boasts a splash pad, this playground can get a bit full. But on cooler days or when we aren’t at the height of splash pad season, this is a nice, quiet playground to visit. There are several play structures and this is another one that is fun for preschoolers as well as older kids.
In addition to the playground, there’s a picnic shelter (a bit far from the playground though) and a splash pad.
Hammond Park
Hammond Park’s is most known for its tennis courts, but it’s also got a nice playground tucked away. Again, this one is surrounded by neighborhoods and tends to be very quiet. It’s main playground has tall structures, good for climbing and bigger kids.
Dale Brown Courts
Also at Hammond Park, but a bit of a walk away are the Dale Brown Basketball Courts. Near the courts is a second playground. This one is geared toward younger children. I’d actually say of all our playgrounds, this is the best one for Pre-K play. Everything is sized well for little climbers and sliders.
Enjoy the Playgrounds in Minot
I hope you’ll get out and enjoy these lesser used playgrounds in Minot. Another great thing about living here is that you are always within a couple minutes of a great play space for the littles. Get intentional about finding fun this summer. Have a great Minot Monday!
Once upon a time I was drawn like a moth to a flame when it came to spiritual gift assessments. I wanted so badly to understand my God given gifts and what they meant for my life. It took years of learning and letting go of some selfish ambition to understand that God offers our souls big freedom when we let go of the list and grab onto His purpose.
Trying to understand my God given gifts left me confused. I did lots of things and had lots of skills–but what was my gift? What job did God have for me to do?
Answering the Question: What Do You Do?
I spent a lot of time during my early Christian walk stressing about spiritual gifts. I’d eagerly take the spiritual gift tests. Anxiously read the descriptions in the inventory–hoping I’d fit in somewhere.
But often the test came back inconclusive. I’d measure equally for multiple gifts and nothing really stood out.
This mirrored real life where I had lots of interests and talent, but no one clear direction. Much of my life (both adolescent and adult) was spent searching for what I should b doing. What was my calling? What career should I pursue? Why didn’t any of my God given gifts bring in an income? How would I ever have a respectable answer to my least favorite question, “What do you do?”
I’m a mixed bag of tricks. Comfortable in the throws of a remodel. Speak contractor lingo fluently. Happy in the church kitchen. Loves dinner parties and formal holiday gatherings. Fearless of public speaking. Chronically curious. Fast learner. Skill gatherer. It’s all very mixed up and incongruous. Where did that leave me? Where would I ever fit? What gift label applied to me?
The time spent grappling to understand the gifts God had given me felt like wandering around in the dark. Why did it seem like everyone else had a path that fit them? Instead of walking in freedom, I a slave to comparison. Comparing my walk to others’. Comparing my (nonexistent) income to others’. I was sure that God had given me gifts, but I didn’t see them.
If I was good at so many things, why didn’t any of it amount to success? Why didn’t I have a “real job?” Or a “real” paycheck?
Maybe one or two of you can relate.
Clarity on God Given Gifts
Years later, I was honest with God about this struggle to find worth in career and my confusion about my God given gifts. He provided clarity to me. This week when reading from Exodus for the 90 Day Bible Reading Challenge intersected with a study of Ephesians I remembered my years of turmoil over God given gifts.
Spiritual Gifts in Ephesians
In Ephesians Paul lists out several “spiritual gifts” given to the Church. (This is one of the passages often quoted during my spiritual gift test exercises.)
And He gave some as apostles, and some as prophets, and some as evangelists, and some as pastors and teachers…
I looked at the list. Options of gifts that I might have. (Also in 1 Cor 12, Rom 12.) Wondering which ones I was given. Thinking if only I could figure out my gifts, I’d be more fit to serve, more capable of finding a “real job,” more content in my own life.
The Purpose of Our God Given Gifts
But the freeing truth God showed me isn’t in the list. Let’s look at the complete sentence from Ephesians 4. (Emphasis mine.)
And He gave some as apostles, and some as prophets, and some as evangelists, and some as pastors and teachers, for the equipping of the saints for the work of service, to the building up of the body of Christ; until we all attain to the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a mature man, to the measure of the stature which belongs to the fullness of Christ.
Ephesians 4:11-13
What my selfish heart overlooked during those early years of searching for purpose was right there all along. It’s not about the list. It’s about the purpose.
The purpose of our God given gifts is equipping other believers for their service. Building (both encouraging and expanding) the Church. And–Our gifts are to be employed until we all attain unity of faith, knowledge of Jesus and the “body of Christ” grows into a mature man.
We are free to use our gifts in any way they manifest, as long as serve this purpose. God doesn’t require our gifts to gain fame, define our career or even pay the bills. Changing our mindset makes us free to live and serve joyfully–instead of feeling like a failure because our gifts don’t fit or aren’t in the career aptitude test.
Gifts in Exodus
Exodus lists lots of other specific gifts given to craftsmen while they are building the tabernacle. Perfumers, those who work with gold, weavers, builders…The jobs listed are extensive, but Scripture is clear that all of these gifts are given from God. (Emphasis mine.)
Moses continued, “So Bezalel and Oholiab will do the work as the Lord has commanded. They will do this with the help of every other craftsman to whom the Lord has given the necessary skills and talents. They will know how to do all the work for constructing the holy place.”
Moses called Bezalel and Oholiab and every other craftsman to whom the Lord had given these skills and who was willing to come and do the work.
I was hoping to be put in a box, given a label–all so I could serve my own interests. I wanted to put my gifts to use for myself. But really–God’s purpose for our gifts (whatever they may be) is to serve others and build His body up.
I thought I needed to find a gift that fit from a list on a test. But really–all our interests, natural inclinations and abilities are from God, to be used for His glory.
Don’t be frustrated because you don’t do it all or wish you were like someone else. The unique makeup of YOU is evidence that you were designed intentionally by an intelligent God.
Don’t be fooled by the lie that God is hiding your purpose. Making His will difficult to find and easy to overlook. I thought to “find God’s will for me,” meant knowing my gifts and exactly how to employ them in a career.
Gifts can look many different ways. A gift can manifest in the ability to preach before a congregation or weave beautiful tapestries. No matter what the gift is, the purpose is more important than the gift itself.
Friends, you are gifted. But we are called to turn those gifts outward. Remove the stress and burden of figuring out how to use your gifts to further yourself–instead, employ them the way God intended. To equip others for work and build the church until we attain unity of faith and the body of Christ grows into a mature man. When you reshape your mindset, you will find that your heart has room to breathe and you feel more free to use your giftings to their fullest.
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Minot Monday is made possible through a partnership with BeLOCAL Minot. Today I’m sharing about the two splash pads in Minot. For more on our parks see BeLOCAL’s listings here or my recommendations for great walks in Minot, here.
Summer means splash pad season. And yes, it does get warm enough here to enjoy a splash pad. It’s not always winter, you know. Anyway. There are two great splash pads in Minot. We enjoy them both–and they are both always nice and clean. Today, for Minot Monday I’ll be giving you a little comparison between the two. As a mom this kind of information is helpful to me–and I hope it’s helpful to you too.
Oak Park Splash Pad
Most people know about the Oak Park Splash Pad. There’s a good reason for that. It’s pretty awesome. This splash pad features some big water features. It’s got the classic “mushroom” with water flowing over the top. Some big fountains that squirt up from the ground. And overall, it’s very wet and fun.
Because the water features are mostly large, this is a great splash pad for older kids. (But my 2 year old also enjoys it!) Since it’s well known and centrally located, this splash pad can get pretty busy, and is consistently busy through the summer. However, even on crowded days, I have found that there is enough space, that kids are kind, and parents are watchful. Overall, we’ve never had a negative experience.
As a parent, don’t expect to be able to help a little one through the fountains without getting pretty soaked yourself!
Perks of going to Oak Park.
Lots of water
A picnic shelter close by
Lots of benches for parents
A large playground (several playgrounds) nearby
Walking and biking trails in the park for additional fun
Restrooms attached to the splash pad
Radio City Splash Pad
Radio City Park is somewhat hidden away in a neighborhood on the south side of town. Of the two splash pads in Minot, Radio City is tamer and geared toward smaller children or kids who may be timid around water. The water features are smaller and release less water.
This has been our favorite splash pad since we moved back to Minot last summer. Like I said, the features are smaller and gentler, perfect for a toddler splasher. Also, it’s generally less crowded and the water features are a little more spread out, so it feels more spacious. There aren’t as many benches nearby, but there is plenty of space for parents to sit on the sidelines and a picnic shelter nearby.
As a parent, I enjoy Radio City’s splash pad because I can “play” in the fountains without getting totally soaked. They are easy to walk around and through while still remaining pretty dry.
Pro Tip: A friend recently told me this is her favorite pre-bedtime activity for her preschooler because it typically clears out around 5pm!
Perks of going to Radio City
Tamer water features, perfect for younger kids
Typically less crowded
Playgrounds nearby–one especially good for young kids
Few trees around the splash pad, so it’s very sunny
Picnic shelter near by
Restroom attached to the splash pad
Enjoy the Splash Pads in Minot
Check out both splash pads in Minot and pick your favorite. No matter which one you like best, the splash pads here are a great way to cool off and let littles run off their summer energy. For more on Minot Parks, visit the parks website or check out these recommendations from BeLCOAL. Happy Monday, everyone!
Today I’m confessing that I dislike reading the book of Job because it makes me very uncomfortable. It brings the ancient question: Why do bad things happen to good people? to the forefront of our minds. And calls for reflection and correction in how we view suffering and walk with those in pain.
This week I read the book of Job. I have a really hard time with Job. Such a hard time that while on the phone with my mom, I told her I’d rather be reading Leviticus.
Now that’s really saying something.
Job isn’t a book I’d just pick up and read for fun. It was on the reading schedule as part of the 90 Day Chronological Bible Reading Challenge that kicked off on Monday. If it wasn’t on the schedule, I wouldn’t have read it right now.
Job Makes Me Uncomfortable
Why is Job so hard for me to stomach?
Honestly, it makes me uncomfortable.
The book starts with scenes that leave me with questions. I can’t quite wrap my mind around the set up leading to Job’s troubles. From chapter one of this book I’m already uncomfortable. Wrestling with questions and circumstances I don’t fully understand.
Then, all kinds of calamity strikes Job. Which brings up more questions. Better stated: The Question.
Why do bad things happen to good people?
How can such terrible things come onto someone so honorable? Why isn’t the world just according to the moral code I understand? Where is retribution for those that do evil? Why don’t all kind people prosper?
Why do bad things happen to good people?
The majority of the book of Job records dialogue between Job and his friends as they debate this issue. Job holds fast to his innocence. He strains to hold onto his faith and what he knows to be true about God.
Word Vomit and Meaning Well
His friends seem to mean well. I’m sure the circumstances facing their friend left them uncomfortable and unsure how to help. But they can’t keep their mouths closed or their speculations to themselves. They offer advice on how to regain God’s favor. They imply that Job must have done something to deserve this. Surely there is some wrong that he hasn’t noticed causing this tragedy.
As I read, I spend half the time rolling my eyes, wishing they would just be quiet and listen to their grieving friend. Take time to fully understand what he’s feeling and facing. I spend the other half of the time cringing with conviction because I can relate to the friends’ reaction on a deep level.
How often, when confronted with a friend’s deep hurt, do I offer advice and suggestions about things I have never walked through? How often, when faced with the discomfort of suffering do I end up spewing “word vomit?” Looking the pain of another human in the face has a way of bringing out the “fixer” in me. Maybe it has the same affect on you. I want things to be better. I want to fix the problem. To ease the pain, to comfort, to make the trauma go away.
Instead of trying to fix, speculating, and problem-solving–often a better reaction is listening, asking gentle questions, and turning to Truth to understand God’s character. Easy said, but boy, it’s hard.
Why Do Bad Things Happen To Good People? It’s an Ancient Question.
The suffering brings out questions. Questions that make us squirm for closure. Closure that may never come on this side of eternity.
We’re reading the Bible chronologically for this challenge. In our plan, Job fits in around Genesis 11. This means that the book of Job is very ancient indeed. Likewise the question, “Why do bad things happen to good people?” And the human desire to equate noble deeds with prosperity and wicked deeds with retribution are extremely ancient.
While studying Job I learned that many texts exist from civilizations in the ancient Near East (like Mesopotamia and Egypt) exploring this concept. In literary pieces similar to Job, bad things come into the life of a good person. Then the text wrestles with big questions. What’s the cause? Why has he lost favor with the gods? What can be done to restore his prosperity?
Humans have long wanted to place God inside our understanding of moral law. We want Him to be just according to our standards. But He is too big and too far-seeing to fit there. His justice is pure, but it doesn’t always look like we want it to. His mercy is so vast we can’t comprehend it.
Friends, our human desire to understand why bad things happen without cause, is ancient and inborn. It’s a question that has been on lips for millennia. It’s been making us squirm, prodding us to speak too quickly, listen too shallowly, and come to the wrong conclusions about God’s character for longer than we can imagine.
Job Causes Me To Examine My Reaction and Heart Toward Suffering
This, is at the heart of why I have such a hard time with Job. The book causes me to stare into the eyes of a question that has very little closure. A question I am humanly programmed to ponder. A question I desperately want a simple answer for.
Humanity will (I will) continue to wonder, ponder and speculate. Why do bad things happen to good people?
The answer may never be more exact than, “We live in a fallen world. God will set it all right again one day.” It takes faith, trust and a relationship with God to take that answer and continue to move forward. To trust that He sees farther than me (see Job 38:22–23) and is just.
The book also forces me to look into a mirror and examine my reaction to other’s suffering. Do I speak Truth rooted in God’s word, on a foundation of love? Do I speak quickly because the pain and the “unanswerable question” leave me uncomfortable? Am I quietly listening and allowing grief to happen? Am I walking beside my brothers and sisters in a way that is “…worthy of the calling to which I was called…” (Eph 4:1-3)
What We DO Know
Job teaches us that hardship does not directly correlate with wrongdoing. It teaches us that God is patient with our mourning, grief and questions. He does not turn a blind eye to our pain. He does not depend on our righteous acts to appease Him into offering blessings. (See Matt 7:11)
While we might not have the answer, Scripture gives us plenty of insight about walking with each other. The instructions give us action steps (but none of those steps happen to be “speak really quickly about things you haven’t walked through…”) Here are just a few examples.
Pursue things that lead to peace and building up each other. Rom 14:19
Hold each other accountable. Help the weak. Be patient with all. 1 Thess 5:14
Admit wrongdoing to each other, pray for one another. Jas 5:16
Moving Forward From Job
I know many of us are wrestling with tough questions right now (and not only because we’ve read through Job.) We may not have the closure we desire, but we do serve a God who is bigger than our understanding. We do serve a God who allows us to be stewards of his grace, to show His ways to the world, to tell others that there is hope beyond unanswerable questions and the senseless grief of this world. He is a God who allows us to be part of His action.
As we face a hurting world, let’s remember to listen a little better. Not “reason away” bad circumstances. Let’s be proactive with the gifts God has given each one of us to create unity in the Body, care for the weak, and expand the Kingdom of Christ on earth.
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Help Me Make Minot Monday Even Better
Hi friends and happy Minot Monday! Today is a unique edition of Minot Monday. Instead of sharing one of my personal favorites or tips for living in Minot–I’m seeking advice from you.
Even though Practically Canada is only just now waking up to summer fun, I’m already thinking of the months to come with my eyes on fall and even (don’t say it…) winter. In order to bring you (both locals, transplants and newcomers) the best content on what Minot is really like and cultivating positive vibes about living here–I need your input. Here’s what I’m looking for. I’ll bullet point them here, and go into a little more detail below.
What do you love about living in Minot?
What do you wish you would have known before moving to town?
Where are your favorite places in town (or within a short drive)?
What has been challenging about living here (the windchill doesn’t count)?
Are you a small business or maker in town? I want to hear about you!
What small businesses do you adore?
For Locals/Experienced Minotians
If you are a local or have lived here a while, you’ve heard the belly aching. It’s not a new story that people are forced to move here and before they even give it a chance they already decide they don’t like it because it’s too cold or the town is too small.
You and I both know Minot is a great place to live. Yes, the winters are cold–but our town is amazing! I love being a welcome wagon to new folks moving in. And (you know) I’ve made it my personal mission to shift the tide of negativity toward Minot.
Here’s how you can help.
Tell me your favorite things. Your favorite places to shop, small businesses, eateries, activities, features of town, etc. Tell me the things you look forward to each year. Or about your friend who crafts and sells her wares. Or anything else you wish someone with a bad attitude about Minot would consider before deciding they don’t like it here.
For Transplants
Whether you are brand new to Minot or have lived here a while, this is what I want to know from you:
What do you love about Minot? Tell me the hidden (or not so hidden) gems that have made life here pleasant. Tell me the things your family looks forward to and the places you frequent. What places/people/businesses/makers do you wish you would have discovered earlier?
Now tell me about challenge you’ve had in adjusting to life in Minot and advice for newcomers. Remember, this is a positive, constructive space. How did you over come the struggles? What helped? What do you wish you knew before coming? Or what do you wish you would have owned?
All that and anything else you think is relevant to someone who will be calling Minot home for the first time.
For Businesses and Makers
Do you sell something locally? Do you offer a service? Are you a shop that is part of the beautiful patchwork of the Minot small businesses scene?!
First of all: THANK YOU! Our array of amazing, talented, and creative small businesses and makers are in my top five favorite things about Minot. Seriously, you play a huge role in making our community so, so special.
Next. Let’s work together to make sure more of Minot knows and loves you. I’m seeking small businesses and makers to collaborate with. I’d love to talk to you and come up with something creative. I’ve already got some ideas brewing–now I just need you to partner with!
For Newcomers
If you’ve just moved to Minot–or have plans to relocate, I also want to hear from you. What have you heard about life in Minot? Tell me what has you excited. Nervous? What recommendations are you looking for? What questions do you have? Where are you finding helpful information? (I’d love to pass those resources along too!)
Minot is happy to have you. And I’m aiming to help you love your time here. And so is BeLOCAL–our hearts are aligned in helping newcomers adjust to life in Minot and thrive like locals. I’d seriously love to hear from you.
How to Get in Touch
Now, I’ve asked for all this information and you’re wondering how to tell me your thoughts. Easy. You can comment on this post. Or email me. Message me or comment on Instagram or Facebook. Or stop me in the street if you happen to see me around town. I’d love to hear your thoughts.
Remember to share this post with others you think would have something to contribute. And as always, join me on Facebook and Instagram to be part of a community striving to live with intentionality and positivity. Have a great week!
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